sponge

When you start liking a person, you think about them a lot. And all these thoughts vary in forms and degree. They are stored in our subconsious states and linger there.

When we are confronted with the person, all the subconscious states pile up from one another and wishes itself to be activated. So the mind is forced to share his/her feeling toward the person to makes sense of all those lingering thoughts.

The longer they are held in, stronger and the more they become, and they can distort the reality of the person, and his sense of being.